Resistance Isn’t the Enemy

In this episode, Bob ’n Joyce explore the surprising benefits of resistance to change. Too often, resistance is seen as a problem to squash — but that only fuels it further. Instead, what if resistance is a signal worth listening to?

When we meet resistance with curiosity and inquiry, it becomes a powerful ally for successful change. Resistance is natural. It’s the system’s way of saying, “Not so fast.”
This conversation was sparked by The Seven C’s of Consulting by Mick Cope — a book we’re reading (and loving).

Here are a few flavors of resistance we dig into:
• Flavor of the day change – “Here we go again…”
• Imposed change – Done to us vs. done with us
• Dislike of surprises – “You’re doing what?”
• Unpopular issues – The hard stuff nobody wants to face
• Fear of the unknown – The imperfect and uncertain
• Feeling inadequate – Not up to the challenge
• Lack of respect – Doubting the messenger

So don’t resist — come on in, grab a snack, and join us for the conversation.